inside the parentheses is where home lives. squeezed between a larger purpose, being a parent was not what i thought was my destiny, and i am still learning how to do it. i have uncovered a well of anger, and the tantrums that come with toddlers also occur in parents. i don't want to adult, some days. i don't want to take care of others. i want to sulk, brood, read buffy the vampire slayer comic books and drink coffee, watch criminal minds, write things, read more things, listen to wu tang, relax.
but new york is my heart, specifically. <3 a="" again.="" all="" always="" am="" and="" are="" arms="" balancing="" be="" between="" bronx.="" buy="" capitalize="" children="" community="" commute="" for="" have="" here.="" here="" hold.="" home="" hope="" i="" imagine="" in="" interstate="" is="" life="" love="" my="" nbsp="" of="" p="" raise="" scale="" someday="" that="" the="" this="" to="" traveling="" two="" within="">how do i balance hectic, frenetic and deeply emotional work with two-tantruming toddlers? plus my own need to exorcise bad energy? i'm not even doing any of them well. so, i've had to withdraw, in many ways. moving so far from my community has meant an implosion of my ability to always be there, but becoming a mom hasn't impeded me, it's transportation.
new jersey has a hold on me. more space to roam with rambunctious curls, the possibility of yards and parks where we can wear these spirits out. i do need to exercise more this year, but i am so, so tired. i am exhausted with the sadness lifted from someone else's shoulders, sagging under its own weight. i am spiritually exhausted, and done with this commute. though i am a lover of public transit, i am meditating on the need for a car. nam myoho renge kyo.
i enter this year in a positive, hopeful place (despite the impending doom of the world), but i recognize the need to withdraw and meditate. be quiet, listen, rest and recharge. isn't this what winter is for? you'll find me balancing between the waves, neither yin nor yang, but building a plan and a path for spring. i withdraw now to reconnect soon. love u.